Tuesday, August 08, 2006

Just For My Friend

Dear friends........
this articles I write especially for you all.

There is many problem, so I can't OL in skype or in YM for a long time. I am sorry.
If you want to mail me, please send to putu_artati@yahoo.com

I am glad if you send me an email, and I will replay ASAP.
Thank you for all :)

basic work posture

The following contents are the basic work posture that I thought about
as a designer. i think each one of them is very important. Ivtake no
account of priority.

1.Can you say "There is no mistake any more"? Concentrate on checking
the mistake.

2.Have a curious mind vigorously.

3.It is necessary to execute your decision at once.

4.Do not worry about the failure. Look for the cause of the failure and
never make the same mistakes again.

5.Look at their eyes when you talk to people and listen to what they
say. Go thoroughly into the unknown thing.

6.Do not be late for the deadline.

7.You should make a lot of friends whose level is higher than you.

8.Value your work, your home and your friend, etc. from the bottom of
your heart.

9.Do not show a puzzled expression on your face.

10.Make an effort until you can accomplish your goal.

Yang tidak disukai HRD

Ingin tahu hal-hal apa saja yang tidak mereka sukai? Berikut ini adalah daftarnya :

1. Resume tidak up-date /tidak valid
Ketika dihubungi, nomor telepon tidak aktif atau sudah pindah kantor/rumah

2.Data di resume tidak diisi dengan lengkap, terkesan tidak serius dan tidak memberikan gambaran yang cukup tentang diri kandidat

3.Alamat email yang dicantumkan salah/tidak valid, sehingga email yang dikirimkan kembali lagi.

4.Surat lamaran yang dikirim dibuat secara sederhana, sekedar mengikuti template dari karir.com, tanpa perubahan sedikitpun

5.Surat lamaran tidak disertai dengan persyaratan yang diminta, misalnya : foto, gaji yang diharapkan dan lain-lain

6.Lamaran dikirim ke bidang/posisi yang jauh berbeda dengan pengalaman dan atau latar belakang pendidikan, tanpa dukungan data apa pun. Bahkan kadang tidak memenuhi hampir seluruh persyaratan yang diminta

7.Lamaran dikirim ke semua posisi yang tersedia di satu perusahaan

8.Lamaran dikirim lebih dari satu kali untuk posisi yang sama di perusahaan yang sama dalam rentang waktu yang tidak terlalu jauh

Nice shot

Ini beberapa foto dari teman, sepertinya bagus :

Manner Training (Japan style)

Manner Training (for Self-use)

1. Smile and Active Vocals (practice)
・ Smile
  ・ Vocal Practice(proper openning of the mouth)
  ・ Greetings and use of words(how to bow)
2.Foundations for being a member of the society
   ・ What the company is about
   ・ Job description (discussion) *work policy
   ・ Work routine
   ・ Personal appearance
3.About etiquettes
   ・ Basic attitude (take to consideration)
   ・ Points on proper speaking (practice)
   ・ Paying attention
4.How to correspond with costumers
   ・ Recieving customers (how to serve, exchange of business cards, preparing tea)
   ・ Visits to other companies

What is Etiquette-Manner
 ☆ Basic personalities 『Self-centered』 『Sympathetic』
 ☆ Origin

※ At the time of Louis the XIV in Versailles, commoners and sorts needed permission to enter the palace. It was in a form of a certain permit called 'etiquette'.

※ Then, there was the Rose Garden of Versailles, which was widely adored by the people. Until one day, an inconsiderate person trampled upon the roses. A young man put up a note that said, 'Please don't trample on the garden of my heart'. The putting up of this sign was called, “etiquette”.
  ⇒ Do not enter someone's house with your shoes on, at least knock beforehand.
   Etiquette (French) -> Ticket (English) -> Kippu [ticket], Ken [token,ticket] (Japanese)

☆ Etiquette is a way to attempt pleasant communication with others(to avoid annoying other people)

 1. Smile and Vocal Practice (oasis of the soul)
   ・ Smile (how to raise the corners of the mouth)
   ・ Vocal Practice (Supplimentary Material 1)
   ・ Greeting guidelines (Supplimentary Material 2)
   Greetings (to be more open and close)
   The key points to the japanese bow (ojigi) is in the angle and rhythm.
         Bow  6:05
         Usual bow  6:10
         Deep bow 6:12~6:13
   ○ A bow comes after giving a proper greeting.
      →With proper eye contact and a nice smile, it is possible to make a good impression (Just like the greetings you receive when staying at a plush hotel and going to a mega department store))
 2. Foundations for being a member of the society
   ・ Elements of the business
       People-Products-Money (information and time)
   ・ The 3 basics
       1. Always on time  
       2. Good reaction and reply
       3. Learn earnestly to broaden your knowledge
   ・ The role of the company
   ・ Work routine
   ・ How to make memos
        (How much)
        (How many)
   ・ Work priority levels  
Check the deadline. If its urgent, try to understand the contents and be dependable.
   ・ Effective working
     Arrangement(throw out no longer necessary objects)Basic neatness(clean up after one's self)
   ・ Personal appearance(appearance makes the man)by Shakespere
       1. A sense of cleanliness (what do people think when they see it)
       2. According to function.
   3. Aware of TPLO(Time,Place,Location,Object) also its situation and purpose.
※ People prefer straight lines to curves 
   ・ How to pay attention to conversations
       Points on paying attention
       1. Expression and glance
       2. Attitude
       3. Asking questions
   ・ Facing Superiors and Seniors
     Hou-Ren-Sou (Houkoku= report; Renraku= contact; Soudan= seek advice)
          ・ Take memos
          ・ Be honest
          ・ Clarify when confused
          ・ Bring a notebook
   ・ Aware of issues going on.
          1. Aware of trouble
          2. What's the matter?
          3. Considerate of other people's situation (hold this firmly)
   ・ Other than acting as an individual (TEAMWORK) please give priority to the organization.
    ・ Learning by working, adds know-how (knowledge; good judgement). Which in time, could develop into one's own theory of wisdom.
 3. Recieving Guests
      └─→Bring a good vibe→be positive→expand interpersonal skills→work advances
   ・ Exchanging business cards
     While giving→do not forget to mention: Company Name, Job Post, your own name, using polite language [Hajimemashite].

      While recieving →「 'choudai itashimasu' ('receiving it is my pleasure')」「'*blank*kaisha no *blank*sama ~ ~ ne...'('Mr/Ms/Mrs. *blank* from *blank* company, correct?'」(recieve with both hands)

   ※ Always lay the card on top of your own card case (never directly on the table)

    ○ When introducing one's self→Take a step forward→Give your card→Give way(if you do not you might bump heads with the other person)→Bow
  ・ How to prepare tea
  ・ Telephone conversations
      1. Vocabulary
      2. Repeating and taking memos
      3. Power of expression (expressive voice)
   ○ How 1.Introduce one's self
       2. Greetings
       3. State the designated person and intended business (present-or not, at the time)
       4. Subject
       5. Greetings
   ※ It is basically known, to wait for the person who called to put down the telephone first.
   ○ Reciever
     1. Your image is based upon your first voice(cheerful intonation)→in order to maintain the company's image, we must act as the PR
※ Please remember that your image is based on your voice.
     2. Make sure to repeat what the other person has said, in order for them to know that you are paying attention. (right?)
     3. Make sure to ask if the other party hasn't stated it yet. For instance, 'who from where' or 'what for whom?'

 4.Other company's visit
   ・Purpose of visit
     {Prior preparations}
        1. Appointment(Date・Purpose・Time required・Place)
           ※ Make sure to confirm the day before the appointment.
        2. Make a survey trip to the intended destination
        3. Check what to bring.
 5.Ask number of intended guests :to prepare seats(Supplimentary Material 5) 

Shortcut Key

Microsoft Windows shortcut keys


Windows System Key Combinations

* CTRL+ESC - Open Start menu
* ALT+TAB - Switch between open programs
* ALT+F4 - Quit program
* SHIFT+DELETE - Delete items permanently

Windows Program Key Combinations

* CTRL+C - Copy
* CTRL+X - Cut
* CTRL+V - Paste
* CTRL+Z - Undo
* CTRL+B - Bold
* CTRL+U - Underline
* CTRL+I - Italic

Mouse Click/Keyboard Modifier Combinations for Shell Objects

* SHIFT+RIGHT CLICK - Displays a context menu containing alternative
* SHIFT+DOUBLE CLICK - Runs the alternate default command (the
second item on the menu).
* ALT+DOUBLE CLICK - Displays properties.
* SHIFT+DELETE - Deletes an item immediately without placing it in
the Recycle Bin.

General Keyboard-Only Commands

* F1 - Starts Windows Help.
* F10 - Activates menu bar options.
* SHIFT+F10 - Opens a context menu for the selected item. This is
the same as right-clicking an object.
* CTRL+ESC - Opens the Start menu. Use the ARROW keys to select an
* CTRL+ESC, ESC - Selects the Start button. (Press TAB to select
quick launch, the taskbar, system tray)
* ALT+DOWN ARROW - Opens a drop-down list box.
* ALT+TAB - Switch to another running application. Hold down the ALT
key and then press the TAB key to view the task-switching window.
* Press down and hold the SHIFT key while you insert a CD-ROM to
bypass the auto-run feature.
* ALT+SPACE - Displays the main window's System menu. From the
System menu, you can restore, move, resize, minimize, maximize, or
close the window.
* ALT+- (ALT+hyphen) - Displays the Multiple Document Interface
(MDI) child window's System menu. From the MDI child window's
System menu, you can restore, move, resize, minimize, maximize, or
close the child window.
* CTRL+TAB - Switch to the next child window of a Multiple Document
Interface (MDI) application.
* ALT+ - Opens the corresponding menu.
* ALT+F4 - Closes the current window.
* ALT+DOWN ARROW - Opens a drop-down list box.
* CTRL+F4 - Closes the current Multiple Document Interface (MDI)
* ALT+F6 - Switch between multiple windows in the same program. For
example, when the Notepad Find dialog box is displayed, ALT+F6
switches between the Find dialog box and the main Notepad window.

Shell Objects and General Folder/Windows Explorer Shortcuts

* F2 - Rename object
* F3 - Find: All Files
* CTRL+X - Cut
* CTRL+C - Copy
* CTRL+V - Paste
* SHIFT+DEL - Delete selection immediately, without moving the item
to the Recycle Bin.
* ALT+ENTER - Open the property sheet for the selected object.
* To Copy a File - Press down and hold the CTRL key while you drag
the file to another folder.
* To Create a Shortcut - Press down and hold CTRL+SHIFT while you
drag a file to the desktop or a folder.

General Folder/Shortcut Control

* F4 - Selects the Go To A Different Folder box and moves down the
entries in the box (if the toolbar is active in Windows Explorer).
* F5 - Refreshes the current window.
* F6 - Moves among panes in Windows Explorer.
* CTRL+G - Opens the Go To Folder tool (in Windows 95 Windows
Explorer only).
* CTRL+Z - Undo the last command.
* CTRL+A - Select all the items in the current window.
* BACKSPACE - Switch to the parent folder.
* SHIFT+CLICK - Close Button For folders, close the current folder
plus all parent folders.

Windows Explorer Tree Control

* Numeric Keypad * - Expands everything under the current selection.
* Numeric Keypad + - Expands the current selection.
* Numeric Keypad - - Collapses the current selection.
* RIGHT ARROW - Expands the current selection if it is not expanded,
otherwise goes to the first child.
* LEFT ARROW - Collapses the current selection if it is expanded,
otherwise goes to the parent.

Property Sheet Control

* CTRL+TAB/CTRL+SHIFT+TAB - Move through the property tabs.

Accessibility Shortcuts

* Tap SHIFT 5 times - Toggles StickyKeys on and off.
* Press down and hold the right SHIFT key for 8 seconds - Toggles
FilterKeys on and off.
* Press down and hold the NUM LOCK key for 5 seconds - Toggles
ToggleKeys on and off.
* Left ALT+left SHIFT+NUM LOCK - Toggles MouseKeys on and off.
* Left ALT+left SHIFT+PRINT SCREEN - Toggles High Contrast on and off.

Microsoft Natural Keyboard Keys

* WINDOWS - Start Menu
* WINDOWS+R - Run dialog box
* WINDOWS+M - Minimize All
* SHIFT+WINDOWS+M - Undo Minimize All
* WINDOWS+F1 - Help
* WINDOWS+E - Windows Explorer
* WINDOWS+F - Find Files or Folders
* WINDOWS+D - Minimizes all open windows and displays the desktop
* CTRL+WINDOWS+F - Find Computer
* CTRL+WINDOWS+TAB - Moves focus from Start, to Quick Launch bar, to
System Tray. Use RIGHT ARROW or LEFT ARROW to move focus to items
on Quick Launch bar and System Tray
* WINDOWS+TAB - Cycle through taskbar buttons
* WINDOWS+BREAK - System Properties dialog box
* Application key - Displays a context menu for the selected item

Microsoft Natural Keyboard with IntelliType Software Installed

* WINDOWS+L - Log off Windows
* WINDOWS+P - Opens Print Manager
* WINDOWS+C - Opens Control Panel
* WINDOWS+V - Opens Clipboard
* WINDOWS+K - Opens Keyboard Properties dialog box
* WINDOWS+I - Opens Mouse Properties dialog box
* WINDOWS+A - Opens Accessibility Options(if installed)
* WINDOWS+SPACEBAR - Displays the list of IntelliType Hotkeys
* WINDOWS+S - Toggles the CAP LOCK key on and off

Dialog Box Keyboard Commands

* TAB - Move to the next control in the dialog box.
* SHIFT+TAB - Move to the previous control in the dialog box.
* SPACEBAR - If the current control is a button, this clicks the
button. If the current control is a check box, this toggles the
check box. If the current control is an option button, this
selects the option button.
* ENTER - Equivalent to clicking the selected button (the button
with the outline).
* ESC - Equivalent to clicking the Cancel button.
* ALT+ - Select menu item.


Setiap hari ngelakuin hal yang sama kadang2 jenuh juga, tp kalo dinikmatin asik jg.

o ya, td baru dapat message yang berbunyi :
"Mencintai dan menghargai tanpa syarat, berbicara dengan penuh perhatian, memberi tanpa alasan dan peduli tanpa pamrih..itu inti dr persahabatan sejati..."

mungkin hal di atas mudah diucapkan, tp prakteknya?????

terkadang kita bisa mencintai dengan tulus, tp apakah itu akan menjadi sahabat. atau apakah pengertian sahabat sebenarnya?
banyak persepsi memang dari sebuah kalimat.

intinya, kita harus bisa memandang dari sudut mana, krn kalau salah mengartikan akan berakibat gak enak juga.

tp, initnya lagi neh. Bacalah artikel saya "pelajaran hidup" dan "five simple rule to be happy"

Bersemangatlah. !! Sampai saat ini hal-hal di luar logika masih belum dong bagi saya, mengenai kadar usaha yang harus dilakukan.
tp intinya lagi, hal2 di luar logika itu tergantung yang di atas jg. jadi rajinlah berdoa, ya gak? sok tua!

Ketinggalan Pesawat

Ini baru namanya apa ya, intinya gak tau deh.

Kemarin, tanggal 2 Mei 2006, aku tuh pulang kampung ke Bali. Awalnya beli tiket Adam Air yang berangkat jam 19:15. Tapi ntah kenapa pesawatnya gak berangkat, n semua penumpang dimajuin jam berangkatnya, jadi jam 17:30. Wah....... gimana neh.
Untung aku bisa pulang 1 jam lebih awal dari ijin sebelumnya(pulang jam 2), jadi bisa berangkat yang jam 17:30. Nah naiklah taxi ke bandara, jam 2 lewat dikit. Sampai di bandara jam 3 lewat dikit juga. Trus tiba-tiba ada karyawan Adam Air yang nawarin, mau berangkat yang jam 15:30 gak? aku bilang mau aja. nah dia udah lari2 tuh ngambilin boarding pass-nya. aku kasi dia 10 ribu.
udah di ruang tunggu nih, tinggal naik pesawat aja.
Nelpon lah aku pulang, menyampaikan no flight-nya. Biar gampang jemputnya.

Aku denger petugas nyebut, Adam Air jurusan Denpasar segera berangkat. Aku denger juga kalo penumpang disuruh masuk(nomor kursi 13 - 40) aku nomor 3C. Tapi gak tahu kenapa, aku tuh gak bangun dari kursi. Aku denger juga pesawat berangkat. Aku gak bangun juga dari kursi.
Akhirnya aku nanya juga ama petugas. Koq yang ke Denpasar, kursi nomor di bawah 13 tidak dipanggil. Kayanya aku bersikap bodoh ya. Tapi ini kali pertama aku seperti itu n gak tahu knapa. Petugasnya cuman bengong, "Ibu dari tadi ke mana aja. Pesawatnya udah pergi Bu", dia berkata.
Gile bener, ketinggalan pesawat neh. :(
Akhirnya aku minta dibalikin ke jam penerbangan sebelumnya, jam 17:30. Ternyata boleh.

Aku nelpon pulang lagi, krn no flight-nya berubah. Kakakku cuman tertawa. Dia bilang, "lebih baik seperti itu. Tadi saya merasa gak enak waktu kamu bilang penerbangan dipercepat, jadi saya berdoa aja biar kamu gak jadi naik pesawat sebelumnya itu".
Waduh waduh waduh !!!!!!!!!!!!

Tapi setelah dipikir2, knapa ya seperti itu. Itu di luar logika. Aku kaya dejavu gitu di bandara. Gak enak banget .

Akhirnya naik pesawat yang terakhir (17:30), Tiba di bali jam setengah delapan, dijemput kakak yang senyum2 sendiri ngeliat saya bertampang KJ(kagak jelas). Tapi yang penting pulang..................................

Ijou desu. ini gak bakalan terulang lagi!!!!!!!! maksudnya ketinggalan pesawatnya. :)

Pak, Bandara ya...

'Pak, bandara ya", itulah kalimat pertama yang saya ucapkan waktu naik taksi di depan menara cakrawala. Selanjutnya, mulai dengan kalimat "bagaimana hari ini Pak, rame?". Supirnya jawab, "sepi Bu.". Dilanjutkan dengan percakapan lainnya....

Setelah bercakap-cakap,mulailah supir taksi itu bercerita masalah kehidupan di Jakarta, bagaimana dia berjuang hidup di Jakarta, etc.

Dia tuh aslinya Semarang, dan pergi ke Jakarta dari umur 17 ato 19 ya, saya rada lupa. Dia pergi ke Jakarta, saat dia tertekan dan sedih, karena saat dia minta sesuatu ke orang tuanya, ibunya berkata "bapakmu itu bukan bapakmu", "bapakmu itu udah punya istri lain." Akhirnya dia nekat pergi ke Jakarta, mengadu nasib dengan bermodalkan uang hasil menjual sepeda yang merupakan hasil keringatnya sendiri.
Di Jakarta, dia tidak punya siapa-siapa, tapi untungnya diterima jadi buruh bangunan. Sampai akhirnya dia punya niat untuk belajar mengemudi dengan meminjam mobil temannya, seorang supir taksi. Setelah dia berhasil memperoleh SIM, mencobalah dia melamar di Blue Bird. Dan Syukur, dia diterima. Di Blue Bird dia udah 7 th-an lebih deh(lupa pastinya). Nah, dari situ dia mulai menabung untuk membantu adik-adiknya sekolah. Dan mulailah berkeluarga. Saat dia ingat perkataan ibunya dulu, dia tidak pernah ingin pulang kampung, tapi mengingat adik2-nya, kangen kampung halaman, makanya dia selalu pulang kampung, sampai akhirnya dia mulai memafkan orang tuanya, yang dulu bisa dikatakan tidak memperhatikan dia, layaknya anak yang lain.

Dari cerita supir tadi, saya mengambil banyak ilmu dalam hal bagaimana dia menyikapi hidup, bagaimana mensyukuri karunia Tuhan, bagaimana menghadapi orang dikala orang itu menghina kita, cara hidup sederhana, dan banyak hal lainnya. Dengan pendidikan cukup sampai SD dan pengalaman yang cukup banyak di bidangnya, di Blue Bird sendiri dia menjadi staf senior.
Terkadang cara berpikir seseorang tidak selalu ditentukan oleh kadar pendidikan yang pernah diperoleh di bangku sekolah.

Selamat belajar, bagi yang mau belajar. "Hey Kids life is not cool". Tapi kalo dibuat cool, ya cool aja. ya gak? ^-^

Galungan days

Kemarin(tepatnya minggu lalu), umat Hindu Bali merayakan hari raya Galungan. Hari raya Galungan adalah hari raya untuk memperingati kemenangan dharma melawan adarma. Darma adalah sifat kebaikan dan adarma adalah sifat jahat.

Umat Hindu percaya bahwa disekitar kita selalu ada hal-hal yang mampu mengganggu kita, sehingga kita berpikir atau berbuat jahat.
Pada hari Senin(hari Pengejukan), para bhuta kala diceritakan berada di gang, mau masuk halaman rumah. Pada hari Selasa(hari Penampahan), para bhuta kala berada di depan rumah(di pintu rumah), nah kalo hari Rabu, para bhuta kala ada di pura keluarga. Jadi, apabila selama 3 hari ini kita berhasil mengendalikan amarah, berbuat kebajikan, maka kita berhasil merayakan hari raya galungan.

Setelah hari raya Galungan(hari Rabu), pada hari Sabtunya(3 hari setelah Galungan) disebut hari Ulihan(artinya kepulangan). Tidak semua umat Hindu di Bali merayakan Ulihan(tergantung desa kala patra). Pada hari Ulihan, kita berdoa untuk leluhur, dan memberikan bekal untuk dibawa kembali ke alamnya. Oleh karena itu, saat upcara ulihan dibuat sajian seperti bekal, ada ketupat, entil(ketupat yang dibungkus dengan daun kalingidi, atau bisa dengan bambu), ada rokok, ada baju baru, ada makanan kesukaan leluhur kita, dan yang lainnya.

Sepuluh hari setelah Galungan, dirayakan hari raya Kuningan. Tidak semua umat juga merayakan kuningan, tergantung desa kala patra juga. Saat Kuningan, kita merayakan kalau kita sudah berhasil mempertahankan kemenangan kita melawan adharma. Ciri khas hari raya Kuningan adalah ada nasi kuning :)

Di Bali, kalau Galungan dan Kuningan ramai sekali. Di pura-pura juga banyak ada upacara. Senang sekali kalau Galungan di Bali ^-^

cerita seminggu kemarin

ohayou gozaiamsu,

Minggu lalu, kan ada tanggal merah, nah saya, Johan, Ikrar, dan Rafid jalan-jalan untuk mengisi liburan. Kami pergi ke plaza senayan, muter-muter dan keliling sampai ke pojok-pojok PS.

O ya, di sana akhirnya saya makan juga mi vegetarian, kata yang jual, ada daging ayam buatan. Awalnya saya sedikit ngeri juga, tp dicoba sekali-sekali. Setelah di makan, rasanya ya gak terlalu gimana gitu.... , ada mi yang bercampur dengan daun katuk, warnanya jadi hijau.

O ya, Sabtu kemarin ada berita gempa di Jogja kan. Kasian ya, ngeliat orang tua yang meninggal. jogja yang indah, roboh! jadi inget Bali waktu bom kemarin.

Gak tahu apa yang terjadi, tp inilah yang terbaik untuk saat ini.

ijou desu.

from Mr. Albert

This is one of .......:

"When you are courting a nice girl an hour seems like a second. When you sit on a red-hot cinder a second seems like an hour. That's relativity."

-Albert Einstein, On relativity

Dojo kun

日本語 :

Hitotsu. Jinkaku kansei ni tsutomuro koto.
Futatsu. Makoto no michi o mamoru koto.
Mitsu. Doryoku no seishin o yashinau koto.
Yotsu. Reigi o omonzuru koto.
Itsutsu. Kekki no yuu o imashimuru koto.

エイゴ :

Strive for the completion of character.
Defend the path of truth.
Foster the spirit of effort.
Respect the principles of etiquette.
Guard against impetuous courage.

other interpretation :

We shall endeavor to build our character.
We shall be faithful in our study.
We shall cultivate courage and tenacity.
We shall attach great importance to etiquette.
We shall be wary of foolishness.

Seek perfection of character.
Defend the path of truth.
Endeavor to excel.
Display courtesy.
Refrain from violent behavior

Sumpah karate

Sanggup memelihara kepribadian
Sanggup patuh pada kejujuran
Sanggup mempertinggi prestasi
Sanggup menjaga sopan santun
Sanggup menguasai diri

from Mr.Philips

Ten Commandments for the Martial Arts Teacher

1.People are illogical, unreasonable and self-centered.
Love them anyway.

2.If you do good, people will accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives.
Do good anyway.

3.If you are successful, you win false friends and true enemies.
Succeed anyway.

4.The good you do today will be forgotten tomorrow.
Do good anyway.

5.Honesty and frankness make you vulnerable.
Be honest and frank anyway.

6.The biggest men with the biggest ideas can be shot down by the smallest men with the smallest ideas.
Think big anyway.

7.People favor underdogs, but follow only the dogs.
Fight for a few underdogs anyway.

8.What you spend years building may be destroyed overnight.
Build anyway

9.People really need help, but may attack you if you do help them.
Help them anyway.

10.Give the world the best you have and you'll get kicked in the teeth.
Give the world the best you have anyway.

"The Ultimate Warrior Leaves No Openings Except in His Mind"

By - Philip S. Porter

we must.....

"We must always change, renew, rejuvenate ourselves; other wise we harden."

"All styles are equal in spirit. Only practioners differentiate -R.Smith"

Message in this year

1. Education is a progresive discovery of our own ignorance

2. Pride is a spiritual cancer; it eats up the very possibility of
love or cententment

3. A true friend is like a good book, the inside is better than the cover

4. Keep your ideals high enough to inspire you.
And low enough to encourage you.

5. Faith give us the courage to face the present with confidence,
and the future with expectancy.

6. A small step of obedience is a giant step towards blessing

7. We must view young people not as empty as bottles to be field,
but as candles to be lit.

8. Education is leading human souls, to what is best, and making
what is best out of them.

9. Failure is not the worst thing in the world, the very worst thing
is not to try.

10.Kindness is a language which the deaf can hear and the blind can see.

11.If the Lord is your shepherd you have everything you need.

12.The past is history. The future is mistery. The moment is a gift.
That is why this moment is called the present, Enjoy it!


What is your zodiak????????????????

My zodiak is capricorn, so I'am a capricorn girl ;)


A man in this Zodiac will has a pair of round big
beautiful eyes, a nice structure jaw line. He is a
good listener and can understand everything easily and
clearly. He can guess what you will say before you
even say it.
He often shakes his head or touch his hair. He is a
big built, but he will tend to have a small ear. He
tends to have a darker shade of hair and eyes' color.
He will likely have a short and strong neck, broad
shoulder, muscular, strong hands and grips. He has a
shorter fingers compare to the man of the same size
and same height in the other zodiac. His hands can
work well at the same time can protect and care for
his woman.

His height will be proportional to his weight. He will
walk firmly and always take a big long step. As he
walks he will look around in caution with no
disturbance from his problems at present or in the
past. He likes to watch things built with fascinate
and wonder about how it is done, so you could see him
watching a construction site and not get bored.

He is a good dancer. He is a careful person in
instinct, so even at dance floor, he will already have
to know what in front or behind him before he will
take any steps.

Green is his favorite color. You will mostly see him
wear green, navy, blue, or brown. In all 12 Zodiacs,
he is the one who can get the most satisfaction from
possession of beautiful thing, and cherish it as if it
is very valuable to him even it is just a crystal ball
made in France.

It is his luck that he hardly has to chase after
woman. They always come themselves without his
invitation. He likes to treat his guest in his house
than visiting his guest at their house. He does not
like to be a center of attention, so if you need his
help, you have to look up for him. He lives his life
in stability and simplicity. Every decision made are
already "Sure" and carefully thought out. He will not
do what he has been asked to do if he is not
interested in doing it. He acts casually but in
reality, he always doing things seriously.

He loves peaceful and quiet environment so in his free
time, he will stay at home instead of going out and
look for adventure. He loves nature and dreams of a
nice and quiet house with lots of trees, or he may
dream of a house in a beautiful countryside.

He will let you have freedoms and watching you in a
distance. If you are over doing something, he will let
you know by his icy cold look. He is the perfect lover
in all the Zodiac for nothing he will not do for his
love one.

He won't allow people to laugh at him or think he is a
joker, so he will spent for himself luxury for what it
is worth.

He likes neat and well dressed woman, so do not be a
slop if you are dating this guy. If you do that he
will loose his face. He is the romantic type who would
dance with you under the moon light.

Love will make him shines and you will see it in his
face. He will not say it out loud, you have to know it


A tall slim, cool and quiet woman. Once she is mad she
can be very fierce.
She can work better than some men and she is very high
confident woman. In her opinion, woman is not just a
flower or decoration at home or at an office and
certainly not a weak sex who needs protection.

She likes to control and hide her weak emotions. She
will never try to change anyone, but she will learn to
accept them as they are. If she does not like someone,
she will not comments or criticize but she will
completely ignore that person.

She hate plastic and an artificial flower because it
make her feel that you are not being sincere. She
loves real flower and it's scent. She loves a guy who
wear after shave cologne. If you are a type of a guy
who wear your Jean one month before washing, or wear
an old sneaker, then you can forget about her.

She loves music and nature even there is a rare case
otherwise. She loves to go picnic in nature, so if you
don't have so much time for her, you can take her
fishing too.

She is not as jealous as Aquarius or Leo woman, but do
not cross the line O.K. Better not to see she gets
mad, especially in front of public when she feels like
loosing face. She loves to make up and dress perfectly
and very neat, so never rush her for this matter.

She has her own goal in life and does not care if you
have a doctorate degree or not, if she thinks you are
not bright then she will not care about you at all.
She likes smart people by character not by certificate
shown. If you can not show her this quality, go and
take a bus and go to the next stop.

She does not like a dreamer who talk about his dream
but never put his hands in action to make it happens.
Don't bother to tell her "everyone is doing it, you
should do it too", or "I think you should do it, it's
good for
you", because she will do what she wants to do only.

She is a neat and tidy person, so if your apartment is
a pigsty , do not take her there. If you go out on a
date with her , try to be presentable such as nice and
clean dress, clean nails or else it will be your last

She is a cool type and will not nag, so easy on your
ears. She is a slow but sure type. She will always
respect and honor you and will never try to make you
loose your face. If she loves you, she will help you
in anything you do.

She likes to help people and expect nothing in return.
If she asks you for a favor and does not get one, she
will feel very disappoint. She has a high hope and a
high faith and beliefs in her own confident than
believing in "Luck".

If she is your wife, you will have nice and clean home
and a gourmet cooking. If your parents visit your
house, they will be please. She is a 3 in 1 means , a
perfect mother, a perfect housewife, a perfect wife or
you could say "happily ever after".


Hot-hearted man who likes to do thing his way. He can
suddenly decide to do something without thinking of
it's outcome. He is the type of guy with an inside
energizer, so if you fall in love with this type of
guy be
"patient", even if you have to follow him a bit. His
creative mind could create fantastic idea any time. If
you do not understand or can not follow him, you won't
be with him for long.

A man in this Zodiac will less likely to have a pale
skin, and if he has a scar, it would be on his face or
on his head. He moves very fast and very energetic,
and he has a very self confident in himself. He is not
the type to sit down and feel sorry or regret anything
for long, especially with "Love". He loves justice. He
dares to show his opinion or even argue about certain
subject even he knows it might bring him problems. A
straight forward type of guy.

He hardly lies except if he think it is necessary and
he is not a good liar anyway. He will not lie to you
about serious matter, but if he lie he will lie only a
small little thing. He is gifted with the ability to
be a very social person. He could talk even about
subject that he has no knowledge of.

He interests only at the present time and look at the
world positively.
Many times he feels hurt because of reality, but he
will not run away and he will overcome that

Even he is a high and self confident type and center
his own thought as a main focus, but at the same time
he is a kind, cute and polite guy. He certainly is not
a mean person. He likes to help people who are in
troubles even he is not asked to. He is the type who
feels sorry if you remember bad things he said to you
that he had already forgotten,but you did not. Belief
him that he is very sorry and give him another chance.

Once he decides to do something, he will put all his
mind and energy in it either in his "Work", or "Love".
He is the type who gamble anything in the casino, so
do not even take him there. He does not like
pessimistic, low energy, and depress person,
especially no brain. Strangely he like to overpowered
this type of people to assure that he is more

He like to be the first person to do something. You
can see sparkling in his eyes, once he meet a new
target or new lover. Once he is in love, he will act
as if he never has love like this before. This minute
he could be real sugar sweet, and later he could also
be an icy cold, but do not blame him for that will
only chase him away. He could fall in love again with
another girl and act again like he never has this kind
of love before.He could really love someone, but not a
heart broken type for he thinks love is "excitement"
and "Love goes on".

If you date this kind of guy, do not or avoid showing
your face to him with face pack, face mask, always be
presentable, nice and cute. If he is quiet not because
he is shy, but he is only quietly thinking. If you
have a
chance to ask his X-girlfriend, she will tell you that
he is not a shy or quiet type. If he is really and
truly in love with you, he will never lie to you at
all. How do you know if he loves you, bet on your
faith! Love him and treat him steadily and do not try
to find anything to argue with him, he will be with
you for sure.

If you are his lover or girlfriend and need to tell
him something, go and say it out loud and straight
forward because he hate long boring story. He hate to
play games, chasing for love or being chased, so let
him call you first. He likes a confident woman who
also a good follower. If he gets mad at you, let him
be for only a short time he will be normal again. You
have to like and be able to get along with his
friends, but he does not have to do so with all your

Don't ever think you could make him jealous by
flirting with other man, he will just leave instead of
making a scene because he is a confident man and has
to be the first in everything.


If you are in love with a woman in this zodiac be
prepared to be very happy or be very sorry. She is a
very busy person with her own matters similar to a guy
in this zodiac. She is able to live by herself without
any guy in her life, a very strong person indeed.

Not because she does not have a dream guy, but if she
can not find such person, so what. Because she thinks
she could do anything that a man can do.

She is a leader , a real confident type.

She likes to do things by herself, such as serving
herself, opening the door herself. Because she thinks
waiting for a helping hand is a waste of time, and she
is not patient enough to wait around for that. If she
starts to ask you out, do not think she starts to
flirt with you, but because she thinks it is a waste
of time to wait for you to be the one who asked.

She likes a COOL guy who sometime act like he is
ignoring her, so he has a chance to show him his own
confident. She like to guess her man's reaction, but
at the same time she likes to has many men wanting
her. She is a daring type who could just do thing
differently from other people in her same society. She
dare to fight for what she thinks belonged to her.

Even she acts confident she mostly feel lonely and
alone. If she breaks up with someone , she won't show
any emotion even deep down inside pain and agony. Not
for long she will come back to be the cheery and merry
person again, because she looks at the world
positively and has "Faith" in the word "Love".

She has more men friends than women friends, so do not
be a jealous type if you date her. She could be
slightly jealous, but she hates jealous guy. She loves
"Freedom" so before and after marriage , her freedom
has to be the same. She likes you to trust her, even
if she does not trust you anyhow.

She likes to be the one who is "Right", so if you
argue with her , let her win if it is not a big deal
for you in that subject. She is a straight forward
type, so if she does not love you anymore, she will
just tell you straight to your face. Her love and
relationship are always real, so if she say "It's
over" be prepare to leave, she is not testing you.

She is not a vulnerable type, so do not have to worry
about her, she will survive by herself. If she is with
you when you get sick, she will certainly take care
and look after you, even look after you mean "small
loan". Do not have secret with her, she hates it and
really can piss her badly. When she is sad , be
understanding. When she is happy, be happy with her,
she likes that.

You will not get bore with this type of girl. Someone
who is close to her will know that deep down beneath
that confident and cold hearted person, she is just as
fragile as any woman. She is a fun and talkative
person and she likes to tease you. Do not let she talk
alone, if you do she will leave.

She has many type of jobs because she beliefs what a
man can do, I can do.
If you want her to work for you, forget it. When she
is in love, she will just leave her job in the day
time just to come to see you, but not for long she
will go back to work seriously again. Prepare to live
and love with a "Working Woman" then you will be OK.

If she mad, find a shelter for the "Hurricane" is
here! Her bad temper will last very shortly though.
She is not a revenge type and will not think of "pay
Back" time. Most people might think of her as "One of
a guy", but in fact she is a 100% woman. She is easily
hurt, so be nice with her. If she really loves you,
then you are lucky because she is an honest, truthful
and will never bored you. Understand that sometimes
she will be over confident and sometimes like to have
power or act bossy.


He is very emotional and always allow himself to be
very emotional. He can have a good night sleep and be
in a good mood, and less than few hours at work he can
be very moody. He does not understand things or try to
understand things easily. If you notice him carefully,
you will notice what kind of moods he is in.

He is a thinker and able to do well at work and always
succeed. His normal gestures mean he always look at
other people faults, but he will not talk about it. He
has the ability to know your thought and able to tell
you what you are thinking about.

He can mostly memorize all his anger, his loves. They
are his important secrets and he will keep them to
himself and will never let you know. He is not a very
ambition man and careless about his position in
society. Wealth does not drawn his attention, because
he is not greedy man and as well he thinks money is
not something that will last. He could be very
careless about his future. He does not like to fight
against all odds, but instead following the stream and
make life easier. Sometimes because he likes to take
an easy path, which cause him very unsteady future.

He is kind and slightly lazy, but it is his cute
character. He hates rules and regulations. He will
never look down on people. He is a polite guy and can
be very aggressive when he is mad. He loves to think
that he lives in a beautiful world and surround by
nice people, so if he finds his world is cruel and not
what he expects, he will live in his world instead.

His other charm is that he is a funny guy, and it is
his real weapon. He can tease you and yet make it
looks like one of his joke. Even when he is sad, he
still has that funny face, so you could hardly tell if
he is mad or depress. He likes to hide his feeling and
help other people especially those who need friend or

He will be everything that you want and everything you
do not want. He has a chance to make it as much as a
chance to fail. He can determine to make it work and
can do it well, except he tends to lost his energy
with other important things, that's how he miss many
of his good opportunity.

He can be happy and content by himself. What he think
is important is not "Love" ,but firm status and
stability. He has plenty of love for you.

He is a good speaker, as much as he is a good
listener. When he is with you, he wants to be happy.
He understand his partner's emotional. He likes to
take a long rest and sometimes being alone. If he
needs to be alone, try not to disturb him.

He is a sensitive, quiet , shy and easily hurt. He
wants to feel worthy. He can be mad and noisy, but
once he calm down, he will be that happy person again.
He is not a jealous or possessive guy, and if he feels
jealous he will hide it. He has many friends of both
sex, and he care about his friends. He likes to have
lots of friends, so you can not get jealous or else
you will loose him. He likes beautiful things, so if a
pretty woman walk by he will look ,so do not get mad
at him knowing this fact.

When he is lonely or feeling sad, be close to comfort
him. He does not like to take advice,so if you want
him to listen or to follow your advice, you have to
act as a good sample for him first. He likes a cheery
and a smart woman. If you treat him like he is your
special person, then he will be that special person
for you. He will trust you if he is in love, but try
not to over doing it and spoil him too much. You have
to know yourself worth all the time too.


She likes to be in a dream world than to be in
reality. She is weak and sensitive when it's come to
"Love". She can cry if her best friend is breaking up,
and she can be over excited when her friend gets a new
boy friend who is a good looking and rich even it is
nothing concerned her at all. You might be surprise to
see that she is shy just because she is in love. More
or less it will be in Pisces woman. She loves small
animal and gifted in training animals.

She has sixth senses and she can guess what will
happen next, it's her nature. Even she has a good
sixth senses, she can not pick or foreseen her own
choice of lover. She can not tell if she meet a
sincere guy or a one night stand guy.

She likes to buy and pick her own cloths. She likes to
dress cute and be cute. Pisces woman tend to be a good
looking woman and she has a nice skin.
Her hands and feet are small and soft. Pisces woman
loves to shop for shoes as if she collects them. She
is a hot lady that everyone wants her. Whether she has
a man in her life or not , she will never try to over
powered any man. It's not even in her thought.

She thinks man can handle things better, and she will
make her man feel that way. She is an easy going
person, so being with her is easy. She is a confident
woman and likes to make people who stay with her
happy. She knows how to please and how to comfort a
man. If something is wrong, she will try to make other
people belief that it's must be because of someone
else, not because of her love one. She will not push
her man to be ambition but to make him feel like he
should be happy with the way he is now. She is happy
with you for what you are now.

A Pisces woman , if she has a bad childhood, she will
always remember it and it will make her a very unhappy
person. She will pity herself and feel sorry for
herself. She tends to hurt herself with out knowing it
and so vulnerable

to drugs (real drugs or just sleeping pills). She has
many choices and you can never tell which path she
going to take. If you love her , then hold her tight
because she never knows why she did what she did or
what she will do next.

A complex character. You may think she is a shy
innocent type and can not hurt anyone, then you are
wrong. You might think she is a fragile person who
needs protection, wrong again. She has been through a
lot, a tough cookie.
She is a dreamer and love the word "Love", so she is
the type who will buy gift for anyone for any
occasion, especially if it is a gift for wedding or an
anniversary even for someone who she does not know so

Be very careful if fall in love with Pisces woman. She
can be a total different person before and after. She
can be an angle before and later a witch, but everyone
is not perfect, right? She will be soft and gentle
of the time, so not to worry. She is emotional and
extremely sensitive when she frequently got hurt. She
is the type who can cry her heart out.

She can have a secret fear inside, when she says she
does not need anyone.
She badly needs someone to protect her, but sometimes
she can hide that feeling by being stubborn. She likes
to hide her shyness and her weakness from her enemy.
She does not like to follow any fixed rules. She can
be a good housewife if you know how to handle her.

Many men will ask to marry her because she is a 100%
woman. If she wants to be sweet, she is a real angles.


He always let other people walk in front of him, but
he will get there first. He is a very careful guy and
small obstacles won't make him fall easily even he
thinks life is a very serious matter. He is as
romantic as
any other Zodiac. He could look gentle, but inside he
is as strong as steel.

Once he determine to do something, he is serious about
doing it well. He will keep any pressure or insult
deep down inside without showing emotion.
You will never see his emotion of burden or
disappointment and always wonder what he thinks or
feels. He will well kept his feeling.

You will never see a guy in this Zodiac involving in
other people business.
He always concern with his own business. Sometimes he
can be talkative, but he will never give anyone advice
if he has not been asked. If you ask for advice, he
will certainly give you one. He respects elderly and
senior, so you will see he is the type who visit his
parents steadily or often.

He is a slightly shy but also a stubborn person. He
will find many ways to make you happy when you are
with him, till you realize he is the important person
for you. Once he is in the "Power Position", he will
use his power gently. He is a good leader and
"Gentleness" is one of his effective method for
exploiting his power. It is although he is borne to be
a leader. He never hide his ambition, and he is a
workaholic. he will not take any position that he has
no control. He will work very hard to reach his goal
and satisfaction.

Compliment from his boss or superior are never enough
for him, he want his deserved reward. His deep
insecurity make him reach and collecting valuable
things, and this you may think he is stingy. Actually
he could easily spending money to buy things,
traveling or pay for things that makes him happy and
he think necessary for his need. He care what other
people think of him and want to get good comments or

Outside he looks like stone and steel, but inside he
is a fragile person.
He will hide and cover up weak emotion and his sadness
in order to maintain and keep up his "Image". One
method of cover up you could easily notice is suddenly
if he is quiet, cold, or act very strong or very
secure. Often, he feels insecure, even he is serious
about his life and his own surrounding.

This is the man who never hurry to get marry, so
hardly sit back and regret about his marriage later.
If he gets marry, he need to be very certain and very
sure. It will take a long time for such decision, so
if you tell him that you are "breaking up" , you
better forget him for good because he will never
coming back.

He always keep his promise. If he said he will meet
you in your place in 2 hours then he will be there,
unless there is a serious accident or unavoidable
things happen. He hate people who is late for date or
any appointment.

He like to think woman should be a follower and take
care of family and working is a man duty. He does not
like to compete with his girl friend or his wife at
work because competition already exist with himself
and other people. He will be very proud if he can
afford and care for his family. Do not try to over
power him or insult him, he can not stand it. He likes
to be in control of every things, every situations.

He like a "Classy Woman" ,if she also comes from a
good family then it is a Plus. It will make him feel
proud and very ego about her status. Flashy type of
woman , forget it. He like a perfect or a nearly
perfect housewife. He tend to be possessive. He will
not tell you if he is mad at you, but will act very
moody to show you instead.

He like to hear sweet word and compliment so you can
get his interest that way. If he approaches you to ask
you out, do not act too stubborn or fooling around too
much. He will get tired and just disappear. He has to
feel confident when he is around you, so knowing this
fact you should know what to do, right!

If you want him, you have to make him feel like he is
the most important person for you. He likes a kind
hearted woman , polite and can get along with his
family. When he feels sad, do not leave him alone, but
be very supportive. Kind words and your smile will win
him over, so this strong man will be like a chicken in
your palm.


She thinks the world is watching her through the eye
glasses of rose petal frame. She thinks people think
and talk about her only about good things and often
disappoint to know the fact that they are not true and
not even real, so she will feel hurt. She think her
path has to be a beautiful one. She think only good
things so she prepares and always make arrangement for
herself to be in the right path always, quite
systematic indeed.

If there is no guy in her life, she will be busy with
herself. This seemingly ordinary woman will push
herself to meet her goal. Her face mostly will be slim
and long, high cheek bone, Eye brow slightly curve up,
slight tall more than short, thin lips and she will
have quite a confusing or mixture of character.

Sometimes, she will be very careful about guy she will
mingle with. She thinks as if she has a main CPU in
her head and she could memorize everything from her
childhood. When she faces with problems, she will
handle them and solving them very well, and at the
same time showing other people that she has that
capability. She can put her mind in solving problems
in crisis better than many other Zodiac. Once she
determine to do thing, nothing will stop her.

Woman in this Zodiac could be totally different from
one woman to another woman. You could see her in the
party dancing like flash dance or dirty dancing, as
well you could also see her as an old fashion lady or
a geek.
She could be someone flashy and wanted by many men, or
she could be a cold and non-social person. She will
have her own way to win you over. Once she choose you,
she will need to be proud of you.

"Love" is not as important to her as "Marriage". Her
real goal in life is "Safety" and her position in
other people sight need to be "Secure". She plans her
life, and socially life easily and very carefully. She
is also very artistic and realistic, so if you are a
nobody or nothing, no chance because she loves
ambition and a good life. She need lots of love,but do
not want and do not belief in an occasional or
unconventional love.

She is a proud in nature type, so if you see a woman
in this Zodiac come from a poor family, she will act
like a woman from a noble family by birth anyway
(certainly there are always exception). She always
look cool even when she is not. She like to make
people see her as "secure and confident" even she is a
mixed emotion and mixed character type. If she is mad,
you can tell right away and she can stay moody for
quite a long time.

You never have all her times, for she likes to work
hard and also spent some spare times working for
charity. You will see woman in this zodiac a
"Volunteer" for camp, and if she is in a high society,
she will most likely be a president or a V.P. of a
"Club". She is a romantic and artistic, but being poor
and unstable is certainly not in her dreams. Her
beautiful imaginations need to be realistic, for
failure is not in her plan.

A Goat always climb high, so either she start from a
low point or a high point, she will make sure at the
end she will have the best spot. She will not show her
ambition, but she will show that she satisfy with
herself now. Once you look back she already moved up
again , quietly but sure.

If she is your love one, be supportive and understand
her. She is stubborn, but she will listen. She will
act like a gentle fragile person,but in fact she can
stick you down like a super glue without you knowing


A quiet simple man who can do something unexpected to
shock you. Taurus man mostly medium tall, strong with
good health, good strong body. When he talks, he likes
to turn his head to one side on one direction. His
body will be quite straight, facial structure tend to
be square shape more than other shape. His eyes
sparkle with liveliness.

Even when he is in love, he is still a free wild bird.
He is a sand in your palm, the more you want to hold
it, it will slip out. If you stand and hold it still,
it will stay that way. Don't set the rules and draw a
line for him, he will not stay.

When you are with him, he will think only of you. But
an hour later he could change his mind. He is very
patient with other people, but very impatient with
himself. His world always turning and it will not stop
just because he loves you. If he up sets, he will show
it right away. If something has gone wrong, he will
blame his own carelessness instead of blaming other

He sincere to his friends even to some friends he does
not like. He likes to do odd things and surprise other
people. He could be fully dress in a nice suit and
jump in the pool. He could slap your back so hard just
to make you turn around to see he has flowers in his
hand. He never want to get too close with anyone for
he thinks living in reality is living by yourself.

He does not care what people think when he behave
weird. He could be walking bare feet and laughing at
people who laugh at him and think they are so narrow
minded. He does not likes to follow conformity, but
always want to search for new ventures, new mystery.
He will interest in a life of a millionaire as much as
a life of an old man selling newspaper on a sidewalk

He like to search and analyze people and things. He
will analyze his friends or his girl friend, and once
the mystery is gone, he will search for new puzzle to
solve. He can not easily understand thing, so he will
gradually learning about you till he fills up all his

He knows so many people ,but he has a few friends. He
looks for quality friends than quantity friends. He
will be close with some friends shortly and move on.
He always feel lonely even surround by many people. He
could create his own little world, and sometimes no
one would understand him. He looks only for future and
he thinks he lives for the future. He may wonder how
many people think like he does, but he does not want
to be like the others.

A man with a conflict personality. He is a cool,
understanding, able to work well, and very artistic.
Taurus man could be an artist. He could shock you as
much as he is able to clam you down when you up set.
He is a free spirit who likes venture, but when he
wants to be alone, do not touch him but to let him be.
He won't disappear from the crowds too long, he will
be back.

He will give you straight forward opinion or comments,
but will never advice what he thinks you should do. He
does not like people to tell him what he should do
too. He thinks each individual dreams and thoughts
should be very private. He will use his brain not his
body strength, so he will let other guys compete. He
has a certain satisfactory in life and hate to force
himself in competition. He may seems careless, but
actually he is a thinker and a stubborn one.

He sees anythings in details and not easily trusted
people till he thinks he knows them well. You can just
smile and he will think why and what are you smiling
about, and if you are pretending. Once he trust you
and accept you as a friend, no one can says other wise
to change that for he will not listen to gossip. He
will be honest and sincere to his friends.

He hates lies, so he will not tell you lies. If he
finds it is necessary to lie, he will find other ways
not to tell you or avoid telling you anything.
If he really has to lie, you will never be able to
tell that he is lying.
He can really keep secrets, so you will hardly know
that he is a lonely soul.

If you want this kind of guy, you have to be an
interesting person. He has to be curious about you.
Hell for him is "No Freedom", so if he marry you then
you should know it is the biggest decision in his
life. Always be interesting, then you could have him
beside you.


A slim moderately tall woman. Taurus woman is funny
and a jolly person.
Square facial bone structure, high cheek bone. Her
round big eyes sparkle with wit and curiosity. You
will not see many round faces Taurus women, and mainly
she will have a strong jaw line.

She is a constantly change person. If she up sets, she
will not show it and will keep it to herself for a
long time, and will remember them so well. If she gets
really mad at you, you will suddenly become a totally
and completely stranger to her.

She is a patient person, but always need new
excitement. She hates long talk meeting, long and
endless conversation. She can be in love with you
today, and one day she could act as if she has never
loved you before. She has patient with what she wants
to do and will never give up until she gets there. She
will be very persistent in what she is doing till she
has reasons for stopping her project, then she will

Money for Taurus woman is not the most important
factor in life. She thinks of money as an instrument
for assuring of a good living. She has more
satisfaction in achieving her goals more than
satisfaction in fine cloths and luxuries. If you like
a woman who always thinks of love and romance ,then
you are dating the wrong girl. You can not tell her to
stay at home, she likes to work and preferred not work
at home.

She loves animals and likes to surround by animals.
Love is in her head, but Freedom is in her soul. She
has her own idea about love and afraid to show her
true feeling for fear of rejection. She is not the
type to talk about love, but she sure has a strange
way to show it. She is not good in showing when she is
in love, but if she loves you she will be honest to
you than any other women.

She will be honest to her love one, but at the same
time seems distant. You will have a good relationship
with her, if you allow her freedom. Do not force her
to be with you in a poker game which she hates, but
let she goes out swinging with her friends if she
wants to. She will be different than other girls, and
she thinks different is one of her unique quality. She
is a public figure but belongs to no one.She will not
stay with you, if she thinks you are not sincere. She
likes you to have personality, but better not to
compete with her. Loves her, but not too much for she
afraid it will limiting her freedom.

She always stand out of the crowd for something she
dares to do. You could see her dress like a poor
farmer dinning in the fancy restaurant, or dress like
a nun in an a cocktail dress party. If you are a
politician who are looking for a wife, she will make a
good one because she is cleverly smart and she could
get along socially with any type of crowds.

She is not a jealous type because she has to know you
thoroughly before accepting you in her life. She has
more curiosity in life than wondering if right now you
are flirting with someone else. If you keep a distant
from her, or go away for a few days, she will miss you
more. Even when she is dating you, she also able to
fond of someone else, if you do not have something she
is looking for. She will never disappoint you or hide
behind your back to make you loose face, but she is
the type who just going to tell you to your face that
" We're better off breaking up".

She always remember her first love. Taurus woman holds
the best record for divorce for she does not care
about how people think of her, but every things should
be done for "Happiness".

She has lots of friends and sure of herself, so you
will hardly see she delays any of her thoughts before
her action. If she think of something, she will go
ahead and does it. She has many men wanting her for
her constant changes is the challenge. She can be cute
and funny, but suddenly cool and tough. She has her
own style of dressing up, so you could see her dress
like an old mate today, and tomorrow she may dress
like she comes from Mars. She will have that
interesting hair, dress and a look unique from anyone

She likes to learn about your dreams and your thought.
She has fun teasing you and making jokes. If she did
something wrong, she won't hide it from you, but do
not ask when she is not in the mood to talk about it.
She hates to owe people money and take promise
seriously. If you promise to pay her back, you'd
better paid up.

If you want to make it with Taurus woman, then do not
be jealous or possessive, do not be narrow minded, do
not criticize about nonsense or small and
insignificant matters. Try to likes her friends and
let she has her privacy, then she can be very sweet to


A man in this Zodiac has a thin long and proportional
face. He has a high forehead and very cleaver. He
looks like he can not stand or sit still, a very fast
person. His nose is just right in size, thin lips,
talk fast and
very talkative. He can think faster than he talks, but
once he start talking, he will talk non stop as if god
has gifted him with that special talk machine mouth.
He likes to cut his hair short and he is very
He is a tall, slim and every movement of his is "Fast"
or nearly call "Hyperactive".

He has a long fingers and always tapping on table or
moving his finger as if he is trying to grab
something. He is the type who will write or scribble
on paper, he never stay still. His hair always well
comb or neat. He will spent a long time to comb his
hair. He will keep his manicure and pedicure clean. He
is a well dress and clean guy, so if you like
cleanliness, you will love him.

He will keep all his cloth in big closet, and never
throw away even shirts he never wear any more, but yet
he still keep buying new cloths and make sure he is in
style. He knows how to dress well even with a low
budget. He get bored easily with his favorite cloths ,
cologne. He is very picky, so soap and his cologne
even have to be in the same trend or same scent.

If you date this kind of guy, you might think you are
dating 2 guys, you will have to guess his feeling and
emotion. Is he doing thing because it is a duty, or is
it because he wants to?

He change his mind as fast as he change a new pairs of
shoes. He can pick up a book and roughly read through
and understand it's contents, so if you see a Gemini
man who reads the whole book, then he must be
influenced by other Zodiac.

He hate to set fix schedule, and dislike a boring same
routine job. He could hardly be on time, and can only
keep time if it is complete important and necessary.
He does not come late because he forgets, but because
he always find other attractions along the way. He
likes to act opposite to what he wants to do. He is a
very good speaker and make a very good politician. He
can easily persuade other people and well presented
himself in public, a real charmer. If he is a writer,
he will write the best seller.

He always search for truth and constantly study
himself. He never satisfy about his fame, his
reputation or money, because he thinks he deserved

He will keep searching even he is not sure what is his
ultimate satisfaction.

Woman in love normally wants to feel secure and
stable, but if you fall in love with this guy be
prepare to be alone. He will come to see you when he
feels like it. He won't even know how he spent his
days everyday, so adjust yourself if you love him.

Dating him is like dating 2 guys, so today he can tell
you how much he loves you, but tomorrow he might call
you to cancel your date. When he upsets, he could tell
you he hate your dress, even it is the same dress he
used to tell you make you look very sexy. Do not ask
him why he is that's way for he won't have any
explanations too. When he is back to normal mood, he
will take you out again and forget what just happened.

You can not expect him to be the same person now, and
forever. His changes will depend on you, for better or
for worst. If you like to take risk and dare for
challenges, you will get along with him fine. He keeps
emotional secretly as if hiding it, so you will not be
able to see if he crazy in love with you, or does not
give a damn at all, but be calm and patient.

He will never leave you if he thinks you are a puzzle,
then he will spent times solving this puzzle.


A good looking woman with brains, a very interesting
person. She has a fast movement and she could not sit
still or stand still long. She is able to do many
things at the same time and do it fast. If you date
her, you will feel like dating many women at the same
time. You can not tie her down with the word "Love"
because she cares about love but is it not a major
factor of her life. You have to be able to adjust
yourself to get along with her many different

She is a dreamer and has many dreams. She eager to
learn something new all the time. Even she is the 2 in
1 mixed character type, she is quite lucky in love.
You have to put all your efforts to win her affection.
Even when she likes you and wonder about your wit, she
will also see and inspect your bad side at the same
time, because it is in her nature.

She able to keep all kinds of mixed emotions without
annoying you or letting you know at all. She can cheer
you up by acting like a free little bird.
Her conversation will not bored you. She able to talk
to you in any subjects. She can make you feel like you
are the luckiest man alive. She can make you feel like
she needs all your care, but once she needs to stand
alone, she can stand alone firmly an comfortably.

She can be your best buddy and talk to you about
anything. She can join all your activities with the
same energy that you have. She is a quick wit person
and learn new things very fast. She can see your
projects and she can give you good advice. If she
thinks you are not sure that you want her for
yourself, she will act like your best friend only, a
cool woman.

She can easily make a guy fall in love with her. Her
multiple changes and many moods is a "Charm" for many
men. She can be laughing for 2 minutes and later
suddenly quiet. She wants to find only 1 true love and
she wants to meet her dream guy. She expects a lot and
nearly too much. She is constantly waiting for her
knight shinning armor even she is with a steady boy
She can fall in love or fond of someone else while she
is with you. If you break up with her, she will forget
you quite fast, because change is in her nature. The
Gemini woman breaks more heart than woman in other
Because she is a dreamer and always waiting for her
knight shinning armor ,so her love life can be complex
or a mess.

She hates to write a long letter, so if you write her
a letter and expect a prompt reply, forget it. Because
she has a multiple personality and multiple ideas, so
she hates to put them down in written proof. Because
she knows what she belief today can be different

She could communication with more than 1 languages , a
real gifted linguistic. If she wants to tell you any
bad comments, she won't say it straight away, but she
will talk to you about many other things and
accidentally come to that subject without offending
you. Normally she will not lie.

She will work hard and once a while take a long rest.
She can get bored and tired with her own surrounding
more than at work. She never feel content with her
present work, money, or reputations, she will drive to
have more.
Don't ask her what is her ultimate contentment for she
will not have an answer.

Once you get to know her, she will be a supportive
person and always be beside you. She has a beautiful
dream and she loves to have someone walk side by side
with her, together and equally.


The most sensitive man and the weakest emotional type
in all Zodiac. Most Artists are Cancer. Cancer is
controlled by the "Moon" and the moon change it's
shape daily, so Cancer man's emotional and moods
change all the time too. You will confuse with him and
yet it is his constantly changes that "Charm" you. He
never go to get what he wants directly, but he will
wait for a chance and opportunity to do so. Once he
gets what he wants, he will not loose it, except if he
get tired of it by himself.

The most sensitive man who can not stand rejection. He
cares what other people feel or think of him. He hates
loosing face and he tends to over protected himself,
so sometimes people might think he is a cold person.

Gifted, creative, imaginative, is Cancer. A mystery
and complexity play a major role in a life of a Cancer
man. He could be very funny, very quiet, suddenly very
sad. Living with him could be very unexpected, for you
will not know what is his next mood. If you like
excitement and surprise, you have the right guy and
never have a chance to get bored.

He thinks of his home as "nest" and it is the safest
place for him. If he feels hurt or depress he will
stay at home alone quietly. Once he feels better, he
will come out of his retreat and lives normally again.
Being a looser is not him.

It is so easy to fall in love with this guy because he
is gentle and a very polite guy. His wit and creative
mind could win your affection. He will come out from
his nest to protect you even if he is not opening
himself up to other people much. Not many people will
win his heart. His security is only when he has money
in his pocket. Once he feels secure then he might
think of having a happy family. Even he likes to make
and keep money, he is not stingy. Spending money is
part of his good image, so he will be happy to spent
money to take you out to a very expensive restaurant
or buy a jewelry for you. Certainly when he has money

He is possessive to everything's that he thinks belong
to him. Don't try to talk to another cute guy in front
of him, he will get suspicion because he is not very
secure or confident in himself for this kind of

Once you know each other too much, he will start to
look for new excitement, but not to worry for he will
always think of you. If he thinks you are the true
love for him, and you try once to disappear. You will
be sure he will come and look for you.

He is a shy guy, but if he likes you. You can get up
in the morning and see that he is in front of your
house everyday till you go out with him, a very
persistent guy.

He likes a secure, cheerful and lively woman,
confident but at the same time always act proper and
appropriate. He likes a secure woman, but able to
adjust to his rapid changes. A very difficult type to
find woman indeed.

In the beginning, you and him will be so sugary sweet
together and he will only think of you. This so "super
romantic" will not last forever, so don't slip this
chance. If you are the one who want his interest, then
act and make yourself interesting. Be a supportive
person and give him compliment sometimes, but not too
much till he thinks you are not sincere.

Unlike many other Zodiac, if he is mad then you better
get out of that room.

He will calm down by himself. Giving him a slight
touch on his shoulders or concerned facial
__expression are enough. He loves his mother, so try
to be his mother favorite, but do not act like his


When she is in love, she will act both ways. First,
Shy and polite

to be near you. Second, Attach to you like glue and
trying to be with you
all the times. She will try to go home with you after
work, or have every
lunch with you. It is O.K. if you like her too, but if
is is not the case,
you will feel very uncomfortable.

She hates to be talked about or gossiped by someone
else. If she knows she
will be very hurt. In nature she is a shy type, except
she has been
influenced by some other Zodiac. She is not a brave or
daring type, so if
you like her then you better be the one who start
first. She will not

her true feeling, so if you like here you better tell
her first.

She is like a musical note always change in tunes, so
one minute she can be
funny and cheerful, and one minute she can be sad and
depress. Other people
may think of her as "Over-acting", or "Over-reacting".

When she is depress, she will go out and look for
things to make it up. She
loves money, and thinks of having "Money" as "happy",
not as "God". She

not look down at you if you do not have a lot of
money, but she will help
you make money, save money. She is not an extravagant
person and sometimes
will tell you not to buy her expensive and not useful

She is the type who enjoy a long and quiet walk.
Cancer woman also
influenced by the "moon", so under the moon light she
will be fascinating

She has a constant fear for many things. She fear of
not being smart

not pretty enough. Even if she is not fat, she will
not be satisfy.

her of her look would help, because she can change
mood 4 times a day.

She is not stingy, but you will not surprise if you
see she collecting old
or broken junks. She sees that everything are useful
to her. She will find

way to re-use it again some day. She is not a jealous
type,but possessive.

The best part of her is that she will sacrifice
everything for her love one
with no limit. Don't leave her in times of troubles,
she will never forget
it. She is not a weak type, even she looks like one,
Example if you argue
with her, she might cry her heart out. Once you left,
she will wipe her
tears and start clean up her apartment normally.

She is a very careful mother and will look after her
kids every steps of

way. If she is a mother of your children, you are at
ease, but if she is
your mother in law, you are in pain. Not to worry,
this type of mother in
law will not let her own daughter being an "Old mate".

She could be moody and argue with you in many little
things like many

but she always wait and want to take care of you. If
you argue with her and
disappear a few days, she will be waiting for you, but
not for long O.K.
This kind of testing is risky, try not to do it.

The Cancer woman need 2 things to be happy which are
"Work" and "Love". She
can be live in a dusty house, but she can not live in
that same house with
no Love.


He likes to comb his hair backward, open his forehead
showing a dignify
facial __expression. His eyes is sparkle, but slightly
showing laziness. He
walks firmly and slowly like a lion, confident and ego
proud. Outside, you
may think he is kind and gentle person, but inside he
is a strong and

person. If he is frighten, he will re-act and respond
right away. His words
always seem normal but mostly imply "order and
demanding". He will not talk
fast, or can not talk fast, neither walk fast. In a
crowd or at work he

act normally, but not for long you will see him
standing out of the crowd
and be a center of attention with his words, or his

You might think he is a shy guy, but deep down inside
he wants to power

his family and his friends. He just waits for that
right moment. Do not

what is his, and do not order him, or else you will
see a fierce lion. He
respects elderly and senior, but will never bow down
and accept like a
looser for he will rather die than loose his dignity.

He talks bluntly even on an occasion that he should
not say such thing. He
is a compassionate guy and always look at other people
on a bright side. He
likes people to listen to him. Even he has such a
blunt and bold
personality, he could easily reach his goal without
making any enemy.

Once disagree with him on something, he can be very up
set like a rainy
storm on a summer day. It will only last a short time,
then he will be back
a cheery merry person again. He is a bright and witty
guy, and he will not
put any efforts on something that he thinks it will
not work and waste his
energy. He is a good planner and can well manage his
job assigned. When he
gives order, he expect them to be carry out exactly.
He is the leader type
that the followers love.

He can give other people advice and solve problems for
other people well,
except his own mess. He can be easily hurt by other
people especially if

do not trust or respect his ability. You could
compliment him sometimes and
make this lion be your kitty with no difficulty. He is
not a good judge for
he listen to many people and tend to belief all sides.

You can hardly see a Leo man with no woman by his
side. If you see him
alone, he could already have a love one in his heart,
or just broken up

one. Because he is very proud, he can change many girl
friends. He will do
many things for the woman he loves, but loosing his
face is not one of

Leo man can not live without love , because for him
Love is a ray of Light.

He likes people to rely on him, it's make him feels
"in power". He may
complaint if he is asked for favor, but deep inside he
is happy that you
asked him. If you offer to help him , he will refuse
you right away.

When he is broke , he can find money still. He is not
careful with his way
of spending for he has fun with spending money and
happy to buy what he
likes. He lets other people borrow money from him
easily even if he has no
money, he will run to his friend to borrow money for
you. He likes first
class , first quality of everything.

He can work hard like a mad dog, and sometimes can be
lazy like a lazy
sleepy cat. When he works, he is very serious. When he
parties, he can be a
party animal. If he ask you out, you will sure have a
fun and jolly time.

He will take chance with his love life, so if you know
how to handle him,
you will win. If he is your love one, it won't be a
romance novel. You have
to be ready to calm him down when he over reacts to
small matters because
your cool stability will control and ease his mood. If
you can not handle

understand him, your relationship will be like a
demolition zone, a on and
off relationship till all your friends tired to hear
about your breaking up
and making up.

Beauty is always in the eyes of the lion. You have to
be dignify to walk
with the lion king. Your looks is part of his image
and ego and he is very
proud about it too. If you want his attention the
first time you meet, you
better be astounding attractive. If you have a first
conversation with him,
you have to show him how much you adore his thinking.
He likes to talk and
not knowing that he likes to talk about himself.


She will stand out of the crowd on the street. Leo
woman normally tall or
rather tall. You will hardly see a short thick woman.
When she walks she
walk like a queen, confident and does not look around,
though as if there

no one around her.

She will dress in her own style not according to
fashion. She is confident
of what she choose to wear. Do not buy cheap cloths
where they sell in

for her as a gift, she will hate it. Also do not buy
cloths that do not
reflect her confident personality. She likes unique
and strange cloths and
accessories. Being different is what she loves.

If you want to know her, take times and be patient
because she is selective
about people she mingles with. She's open minded, but
yet she is not

people get to close to her easily. She likes sweet
words and compliments,
but not too much.

She smiles with anyone, but inside she thinks she is
borne to be a leader.
She likes to be in control because it is in her nature
instinct. She is a
graceful woman , and she has a magnetic charisma, so
expect tough

She is a very proud person, so do not do anything to
challenge her
confident. She can be mad and act like a hurricane,
and later can be like

innocent kitten, but do not fall for her O.K. She
remembers everything and
likes to cherish her sweet memory, so if you find her
old photo albums with
her ex-boyfriend or love letters that will make you
puke, take it easy. She
is keeping her sweet memory does not mean she still in
love with the old
fool, so you do not have to panic.

She will have many guys run after her, so if you have
advantage of a good
background family, or a famous last name, a successful
career then it's a
plus. She hates to be poor and she thinks love will
not pay bills.

She is a sport type and love sports. If you want to
date her, prepare to
spend big bugs, for your first dinner with her can not
be a hot dog stand,
but better be the best place in town. She is a
generous person, so do not

surprise if she give you a gift more expensive than
what you gave her. She
likes extravaganza, no cheap gift, no cheap dinner
please. Being poor or
broke make her depress. If you do not have lots of
money, be creative and
make your own gift for her. It's unique quality and
times spending making

for her is a big deal. You can think economical, but
do not be cheap.


Time is precious for Virgo man and if you make him
wait, he will consider
that as an insult. He hates to hear criticism and
hates to be criticize. If
he is criticizing other people, then he must be
influenced by other Zodiac.
He is and he likes to be a perfectionist. He always
think he is doing the
right and appropriate thing , and often he thinks he
makes no mistake. He

a bright guy and could accept comments if he thinks it
can improve himself.
He is the type who well adjusted to make changes.

He will spent money carefully and spent it worthwhile.
He will only
extravagant for his personnel pleasure only. He is
quite romantic, a type

guy who can drive 100 miles just to tell you how much
he misses you. If he
does not care about you, he will not even spent a dime
to call you locally.
Long distant special low rate call is also out of the

He hates rough and crude people. His woman has to be
clean and dress well.
He inspects any thing in details beside being a
perfectionist, so you could
be lying in your bikini with a perfect figure and he
can suddenly comments
you about your big feet. If you gain 2 pounds , he may
comments you are
getting too fat. Before going out with this kind of
guy, look at yourself
head to toe in the mirror and ask yourself if you are
really and entirely
ready. Unless he dates a model, then he will have less

He is neat and tidy, so his life always in a schedule,
a fix time to lunch,
the same time to go home. He is well knowledge about
food and conscious
about nutrition, so you won't see this guy eating a
junk food, or strange
and exotic food for sure.

You will see him in social events or party if only
necessary. He is gifted
with acting, so if he says he can not go out with you
because he is sick,
then you will belief him. He is a hard to please when
it comes to what to
eat, how to work, what kind of a woman to date. He
always neat and tidy all
the times, even if he is in the army, he will be the
cleanest soldier in

camp. He likes to speak properly with no slang. He
hates laziness and lazy
people. He always act like a boring mature adults, but
getting to know him

you will know he has his own charm.

He always see things clearly, so he is not the type to
be blinded by love.
He is a kind and cool guy, but if constantly irritate
with rudeness,
ignorant, or stupidity then he will show you that he
is annoyed. You may

a guy in this Zodiac dress up in an old shirt and old
Jean, but if you look
carefully, you will see that his hair is neat and
unconsciously he will
touch his hair a lot. His desk is always neat and if
he sees small scrap
paper on the floor, he will pick it up or put it in
the basket.

People may think he is selfish, because when he says
"No", he really means
it. Any favor asked , he will help but always in his
own limit. The more he
see faults in others, the less he wants people to see
his. If you want him
to change his faults, try to tell him gently or he
could take it as an

He wants love that comes with quality, so he only has
a few loves in his
life. Woman's trick will not work with him. If he
breaks up with a woman,

will also try to avoid all her friends and her
environments too. He is very
picky and every breaking up, he will be double careful
next time.

He can sweep woman with his charm, but he likes to
keep his relationship
like a friend. He likes a sincere self confident
woman, neat and clean,
perfect and tidy. A real two "P" , picky and
perfectionist Zodiac.


She will be similar to Leo woman in appearance. A slim
woman who walks with
confident and proud. She has an egg shape facial
structure, high and round
forehead. She likes to look straight as if she is
searching. She is not a
pretentious type and will always say what she thinks.

You will see Virgo woman walks fast. She will try her
best to be perfect,

look perfect and to feel perfect even though there is
no such perfection.
She is very delicate of what and how she dress. She is
bright and easily
despair with obstacles. She likes smart guy who will
be compatible with

so if you are a rich dumb guy, you can forget about
her right now.

She is not a very possessive or jealous person for she
expect respect from
her love one. She does not like a part time lover, or
a temporary mate. If
she finds her dream man, she will not go away. If she
does not like you,

will always keep a certain distant. Act proper and
appropriate is her

She does not like and can not stand bad languages,
cursing words or phrase.
She likes a gentleman who open the doors for her. She
wants to feel
protected and when a man taking care of her, she will
feel like a complete

She memorizes everything about other people and about
herself very well.

can really keep secret, you can trust her on this. She
likes a refreshing
and a mild scent. She is very delicate in maintaining
her beauty, so you
could see she is seriously picking soap which match
and most suit her skin.
Do not comments her on this very picky habits, it is
her happiness in
working full times as a self beautifier.

She is not an innocent angle for sometimes she can be
as tough as steel.
Even she easily despair, she is not the type to cry
over it. She is a shy
type, so making speech in front of the room can make
her nervous even she
walks and talks confidently.

She only search for true love , not just any love. Her
love is an ideal

She likes to think no one is neater and as effective
as her, which can
irritate you sometimes for there is no such thing. She
likes sweet talk,

she can slip and say something unpredictable and
unbearable to you too.

she stops getting mad, she will totally forget what
she just said and be an
angle again. If you have a date with her , you'd
better be there on time.

Flowers and sweet word can calm her down. If you want
to say sorry , make

brief and straight forward. Do not drag your
apologetic words into a long
making it up events, it could lead you to another
world war. She likes her
man to dress nice and clean. She is good in details
especially with money.
Do not make she thinks that she is a clown or funny.

In the beginning of knowing her, please try not to
glance at other pretty
woman so much. Early period of dating her, try not to
hold her so much in
public, it would not be a proper thing to do. She
loves books, stage play
and music and likes to criticize about them too.

Criticism woman is her icon including big and small
things in life starting
from your hair, your dress , and the way you talk. If
you are in love with
her, be as almost perfect as your can.


A man who has no balance like his Zodiac symbol. He is
not the gentle, cool
, calm and charming guy like what you see. He has
another dark side of
aggression, stubborn and he likes to start an argument
the most. Sometimes
he can be so depress and unstable. Up and down like he
is trying to balance
himself most of the time.

To many people, he is a friendly guy and always smile
even when he is mad

up set. His voice always gentle and calm. he always
set and comb his hair

if he comes out from a shampoo advertisement. Mostly
Libra men are good
looking, even the ugly one is charming. When he
smiles, it is so bright

the whole world is smiling with him too.

When he is in a balance mood, he is the type of person
you want to be with.
In other unbalancing mood, he likes to make people
argue about something

watching it with fascination and fun. He will wait to
be the one who
compromise and clear thing up. He likes to be in a

Libra man is lazy by nature. After his tired day at
work, he likes to sit
still and just look out of the window or read quietly.
He likes to be in

own world. After recharging his battery, he will be
very energetic again

may even take you out that night.

Libra man normally will not do any shocking or
abnormal things to be
noticed. He likes to be conformed with his crowd, but
if you watch him
carefully, you will see the different. If he wear a
shirt, it will have to
be a zipper front instead of buttons, or a special tie
bar. There is always
something in him that he will not allow totally
conformity to take him

A straight forward , no non-sense guy. He is careful
and delicate in
details. He will spent extra time to doing it right,
than comes back to
correct them later. He hates people who boost, or
exaggerate. He does not
like over dressed woman or make herself a center of an

He loves to read. He loves poems and loves art. When
he works he can work
like crazy, but after work he can turn on romantic
jazzy music and treat

so gently. He loves to give people advice and normally
give a good advice.
If you fall for him, you will stay like being trapped
in a spider web. If
you want to break up with him, he will persuade you a
zillion ways to stay
and you can not stop him anyway. After he persuade you
to stay, or after a
big fight, he will be so sweet to you as if he has
never hurt your feeling
before ever.

He will has his own way to win a girl love and
affection. Once she says

he will lay back and wonder if he should go on or if
he should back out. In
his teen, he changed many girl friends because he can
not clearly separate
loving a friend and loving a girl friend. He will
check and re-cheek if his
match is suitable and compatible with him.

Even he is a romantic man, he can hardly understand
the emotion of the one
he loves. He is a generous guy even he sets his life
so systematically. He
never knows when he makes you unhappy. He never knows
how he up set you. He
will never knows what he said wrong. If he is your
lover, be prepare for

A not so pretty girl with no brain is not his type of
woman. If you are not
pretty enough, he will not mind talking to you but he
does not care to get
to know you. Any girls, pretty or ugly can ask for his
help, he will be
happy to help. He hates to argue by yelling at each
other, so you tend to
see he argue with his girl friend seriously but try at
best to be very

He likes to have a girl friend by getting to know each
other like a friend
first. If you want him, you have to like the same
thing he does. He prefers
a pretty and gentle woman than a smart and ugly woman.
You have to
understand his mood especially he can has many
different moods. He is a
private person, so when he needs to be alone better
let him be.


Libra woman mostly has an egg oval facial shape. She
has a nice smooth skin
and a good figure. She will spent so much efforts to
keep her skin clean

pretty. She can be easily allergy to cosmetic and make
up, but taken care

her face and avoid wrinkle is her hobby. She is good
at it and tend to look
younger than her age.

She can be very naughty like a little boy, but yet
fully 100% woman. She
looks nice in either Jean or night gown. She thinks
woman is equal to man.
Sometimes she can think faster than you, but she will
not leave you far
behind. She will try not to make you feel like you are
competed or defeated
in any games she plays with you even she is winning.

She is a little flirt even she has no idea what she
wants. She can not
decide what to do, and what not to do, so she can not
set her schedule very
well in all cases.

She is gifted with how to dress, and how to match her
dress. She likes to
dress in black and wear perfume. She likes a mild
flowery scent.

In any argument, she can really argue. She can argue
for hours, and mostly
win the argument. If it is not a serious argument, she
could argue and once
a while give you a smile also. She will make a good
politician, because she
can tell which party will win the election.

She always has a good reasons ,even she likes to
contradict herself. She

not decide what is right and wrong for her, because
everything has a good
side and a bad side. Woman in other Zodiac might not
care what other people
think, but Libra woman care what other people ,or what
you feel as much as
her own feeling.

She can adjust to her environment very well, so at
work she will be at the
ladder up. She likes team work in doing things. If you
ask her for help or
advice, she will help you except if she does not like
your guts. She can
change you and make you think you change by yourself
without her influence.

Good side of being with Libra woman are she never
interfere with your
privacy. She will not make you loose face in front of
your friends. Even

cares about how much money she has left his her bank
account, she will

forget to let you know how much she cares for you.

She think taken care of the house is a woman job and
she can do it well.

if you expect a Libra woman to fear you, then you are
wrong. She is a

woman even she looks at you with that sweet innocent
pairs of baby's looks
and may loose you (let you win) in a few poker games.

If she is the one you are after, then go step by step.
The best way is

her friends introducing you to her. Do not make her
feel or treat her like

bubble head. You have to move forward toward her with
confident and secure.
Show her that you are a kind , polite and a real
gentleman. Be a slow hand
or else you might get smack!


A man with a foggy clouds over him. He is sensitive
and easily hurt and
always feels lonely. He does not trust anyone but
himself. Sounding so
negative, but he has an amazingly charisma. He is a
compassionate man . He
absorbs other people sentimental feeling and pain.

He is a good psychiatrist and he could understand
complex and confused
feeling. He has a hidden power that he could use it to
make things happen
and do things well. He does not like people who never
try to help

before asking other people for favors. He is the type
of guy who mostly
achieved his goal in life.Once he sets his mind for
something, he will put
all his energy and efforts in it , whether or not it
is a small matter or a
big project. One of the most success man in all the

He is a very patient man and can waits for years to
reach his goal. He

thin feeling and weak determinations. He can not
retreat or rest for long,
for he thinks life has more questions and more answer
to be searched.

If he is in love, you will get plenty of love from
him, sometimes may be

much than you have asked for. He is serious about love
and relationship and
will not waste time with someone he does not love
whether how pretty she

He hardly makes mistake. He could tell if you have any
bad thought, and

not hesitate to tell you so. If you do not like
straight forward sincere
man, then pack your bag now. If you are an over
sensitive person, try not

ask for his comments. He will tell you the truth, even
you might not be

to take it. Example , if you ask him if you are fat
(and you are fat), he
will say "yes, as big as a balloon". He makes such
comments because he

for you, so do something about your weight and do not
get up set with him.

If he says "you look pretty today", you can be proud
because he will not

such think just to please you if he does not really
mean it. There will be
both kind of people, those who like him and those who
hate him. If you are
in love this guy, be strong and belief in your
decision, do not be
vulnerable. He remembers all his anger and will wait
for his pay back time.

He is very serious about your promise, do not promise
something you could
not keep. He loves his friends and will do anything
for his close friends.
He likes you to take care of him, but not in front of
his friend. He is a
complex man and you will never understand what he
means if you do not

know him. He is happy to know he is a complex figure.
When he is thinking

when he needs his privacy, you should give him some

He memorize everything well. You may say something
that you already
forgotten, but he will remember every words. He wants
to be respected and
admired and at the same time he does not like people
to have power over

When he falls in love, he really falls deep. A man in
this Zodiac once in
love, he will be sweeter than sugar. He does not like
a plain and simple
woman. A complex woman's mind is his venture. Always
be interesting and

to talk to him about every things in any subjects. He
does not like a woman
who sits around waiting for his call.


A simple woman who always show what kind of a moods
she is in. You can tell
right way if she up set, or if she is flirting with
you. She displays
herself with her act much more than trying to say it
for it's in her

A Scorpio woman has her own mysterious personality.
She is confident and
deep down inside she is quite proud of herself. She
hates to think she is
borne a woman and so limiting her with a certain
social acceptable rules.
She is a real woman and despite her innocent and
childish looks, she has a
spirit of free soul. Many men will make mistake if
they think she is a good
follower, they are wrong.

She thinks being a plain simple housewife is boring.
She likes to have

and control over other people, but this will be only
her secret, so you

only see a cute woman. Every things she does will look
good, and she has

the woman's trick you can think of. She can manipulate
men without they
knowing it.

If you think she going to do everything you say
because she loves you, then
you will be disappointed. She could be a little
tomboyish and she can
understand you by just looking in your eyes. You may
say sweet words which
could sweep any woman, but not with the Scorpio woman.
She will use her
X-ray eyes reading your thought of what you just said
or what you are going
to say. She always smile and she can really hide her

She will constantly show you that she loves freedom.
If she has freedom,

will not leave you, but will even love you more. If
she wants something,

will do everything to get it. She has her own sixth
sense of people and you
can feel that energy feed back when you around her.
She likes a man who can
earn her respect, and she will also respect and feel
proud of that man. A
man with power over her should not threat or challenge
her confident. She
likes to have a good looking , strong and healthy man
especially if she
start to compare with her friends' boyfriends. It is a
plus if he hold a
degree or a good career.

She is a hot lady. She likes heavy music. She either
loves or hates, there
are no "fond of", or "like" for her. Love has no "may
be", or "perhaps". If
she is real mad, she will trash and throw things. Her
wind storm can sweep
all her dishes and you could get accidentally hit on
your head for this
matter. Be calm, it is just your grand mother favorite
china for she has
good quality as much as her bad tempered.

Sometimes she shows her weakness, but it won't be
long. She will put

together and back to be that hot chili again. If she
loves you, it will be
no matter what other people may say. Her relationship
will be more

than what is right or wrong. Because of this reason,
you may know some
Scorpio woman become a second wife, a mistress.

She is spoil, but she allows her love one to over
power her. Dating this
woman, you should not keep old love letters in your
pocket or in your

It could be a love letter 2 years ago, but never mind
she will argue about
this since this is a big deal for a suspicious woman.
Remember she has a
temper of the shrew.

If you play a cold war with her, she will treat you
likewise and double it.
If you stood her up once, she will stood you up 2-3
times. She is quite

in justice, so she can accept your apologies as much
as she can pretend to
accept things for now and wait for a pay back revenge
in the future. If you
are nice to hear, she will double that to you as well.
A real fair woman.

She likes to make and spent money. She likes to have
fame and reputations,
and never let herself broke and have no name at the
same time. She is too
proud and will not accept status of being "Poor". She
loves to have face,

if you are a manager with small salary, she will be
proud more than more
money being a truck driver. She hates to think and she
can not stand a
feeling of being a "Nobody".

If you like her, play a little hard to get. This will
excite her a bit.

you go out on a date, set your schedule, but do not
let she knows that you
have planned this for weeks. Always go to pick her up
on time or better to
go 5-10 minutes early.


A man who loves social life and curious about every
new progress, new
development to make sure he is in the era and always
have all up date
information. He likes to know what is the latest trend
of fashion and make
sure he is not out of style. You can easily spot him
at the grand opening

new pub, new restaurant for he loves to participate in
social activity.

There is a few Sagittarius who is a private person as
well, but you could
see that he will be ahead of his friends. He will
knows what is the best
seller book, what are the top 10 hot hit of the week.
The hottest movies
showing now, he must have already seen it.

He hates routine, It makes him bored. He likes to get
to his goals and
succeeding in doing so is his true reward. Money
making is O.K. but it is
not his true joy, for he can easily spent them in a
short while. They say

you want the truth, go and ask Sagittarius. They are
right, you can ask him
and he will tell you all the truth and very straight
forward. Even he may
speak bluntly, his friends loves him. If you have
problems, all your friends may feel sorry for you, but
Sagittarius will be the one who will give you a
helping hand first and even expect no return favor.
That's why he is a real charmer even sometimes big

When he is mad , he can be quite fierce but quickly
dissolve and easily forgotten. He is not a person who
will take a revenge, so if he say he going to burn
down your house, you can relax. He likes compliments
and sweet words, so you can manipulate him easily. If
he knows you are not sincere, you will totally become
meaningless to him.

Some Sagittarius are gifted musician, or singer. He is
a happy soul, has a good humor and has lots of jokes.
He loves freedom, lively and very energetic. If he is
working, he will take his job seriously. He likes to
travel, likes to see new exciting places. Going out or
traveling make him happy.

Sagittarius man is like a free bird. He lives as if
everyday is Sunday. He will hardly be in a bad mood,
but if he is in a bad mood, you will better leave his
sight. If you want to talk to him in such mood, try to
avoid issue of commenting his life. He flirts like
other man, but he has a built in brake, so he will
come back to you by himself. If he disappear for a few
days, not to worry for he is only recharging his
battery to be that same lively person again, them he
will be back.

He has allergies to Pretty woman, so in love with many
woman for him would be normal. Setting dating schedule
is his games and it's fun for him, and this will keep
him from being bored. He hates obligations, so the
word "marriage" would suffocated him. If you allow him
to have freedom, he will not go anywhere.

He falls in love as easy as he catches cold,
especially if she is cute, funny and she has a strong
personality. No one can tell how long he will be in
love each time. If you want to really hold Sagittarius
man, act like you are in an adventure movie. At all
time, you should make yourself lively, tells him some
jokes, always be cute so that it will ease up his
allergy to other pretty woman a bit.


A tall slim and graceful woman who walked proudly like
she is walking in a beauty pageant competition. If she
slips or nearly falls, she will nicely covered it up
and continue with her graceful and impressive walking
She knows how to use make up to enhance her beauty.
She looks at the world positively, so her face always
seem so happy. She will not get up set easily.

Self confident woman who belief in her own style. She
will not follow fashion, but standing in between
simplicity and too modern. She is a very open person,
sometimes can be too blunt. She is an honest person
and never try to cause troubles for any one.

She likes to say something that you do not want to
hear and yet she can say something so pleasing at the
same time. Example she may say "I wish you could make
more money, so you could afford better cloth, but
anyway it is better this way. If you make more money
you could be thinking of money too much and become
greedy". She can say such thing and make you wonder if
you should get up set or love her more.

She is also a free spirit and does not like to stay
home. She likes to be protected, but not to give her
orders. She has no respect to a weak man. If she try
to over powered you, then you have to calm her down
and try to control her to be in a limit by doing the
same thing too. She will listen if she respect you.
She likes to be herself and like her guy to be

She is a no nonsense woman, so you will not hear she
says " Guess what I will do next", or "Guess what I am
thinking" because she always say what she is thinking
out loud like a guy. If you do not understand her in
this matter, you could easily break up with her. She
sees problems in her love life as another funny story.

She is clumsy and it is in her nature. You may think
it is cute, but for some neat guys this could be so
unbearable. She is very friendly, so she can easily
turn her enemy to be her friends. She has good taste
in fine cloths, good food, first class and first
services. Even a poor woman in this Zodiac will
struggle to afford such good taste. She could spent
lots of money as if she can not understand how
difficult it is to make money. If you think of let her
borrow money, think again.

She is a paranoid. If she thinks you like her, she may
already think about getting marry and lost her freedom
and so on and on. A jolly woman who loves sports. She
is an ordinary woman who could dress like a tomboy.
She has more guy friends and sometimes could act like
one of a guy. She does not care about rumors, so she
can get home very late and couldn't careless what her
neighbor will gossip about her. She thinks either good
or bad, you will know it yourself , so you should not
bother what people think.

Her wit and innocent look are her charms. She is often
hurts from love, but never afraid to look for a new
one as if she is singing "Do that to me one more
time". She likes going straight and being straight
forward. She will not go around to get what she wants,
or beat around the bush just to say something. If you
meet her and tell her straight what you think, she
will admire you.

"Life is the first gift, love is the second, and
understanding the third." --Marge Piercy
"Happiness is a function of accepting what is."
--Werner Erhard
"There are two ways of meeting difficulties: you alter
the difficulties, or you alter yourself to meet them."
--Phyllis Bottome

Have a smiling day!! *^_^*